Published: March 9th 2016, 7:36:16 pm
Music and other noises are often used in cinema and storytelling to manipulate your feelings, enhance the effects, and mark patterns. Sometimes the soundtracks are so ingrained in the experience we don’t even realize they’re there. For example, lyrics could be playing over a fight scene and we wouldn’t notice them, at least not until the sound was muted and the punches were just punches again.
Your sex tip today is to identify and incorporate more sounds into your sex life. Make a mix tape. Burn a cd. Find a Pandora channel that matches your sexy times. Moan more. Play porn in the background. Borrow someone else’s soundtrack. Attach music and other noises to your sensations. Let the sounds guide the story of the sex you have while listening to it. Find patterns and get involved emotionally to enhance what you experience.
Here’s an example:
I Wanna Be Down by Brandy, move hips in sync with the pops of the beat and the curves of her voice for an amazing lap dance. Add arm movements with the chorus. Physically get lower on your partner’s body when she sings “I wanna be down.”
*I’m laughing because it’s so much easier for me to explain with video and I think this would be a hilarious Sexplanations’ episode: Lindsey lap dancing in teacher mode.