Published: December 10th 2015, 11:13:31 pm
These are written for partnered sex but you can do them solo too. I wrote them as short to-dos so you'd be able to check them off easily. They're also made to work for any sex/gender/budget/location/relationship dynamic. And remember for everything I suggest there is a difference between making a decision to do something and actually doing it.
1: Have sex in the mirror so you can see more of what is happening and not just rely on your skin to send messages to your brain about your experiences.
2. Hang out with friends to bring fresh energy into your life that you can share with a partner later.
3. Identify 4 non-bed locations to have sex.
4. Shop for sex toys together.
5. Wear boots while playing/having sex together.
6. Wear underwear while you play.
7. Lie together and make as much body contact as you can for at least ten minutes.
8. Watch the first 10 episodes of Sexplanations while eating something delicious.
9. Go get tested for sexually transmitted infections.
10. Write each other a sexy poem.
11. Sleep/have sex in the opposite direction (pillows at the foot of the bed).
12. Find/make a clever storage space for all your sex toys, books, and lingerie.
13. Groom your pubic hair.
14. Write a letter to your partner’s genitals.
15. Make a want/will/won’t list for your 2016 sex life.
16. Make-out for two minutes.
17. Play footsie at your next restaurant date.
18. Read the Two Step by McCann.
19. Send a sext like “I love the way you smell when we play” or “your skin my hand’s favorite place.”
20. Take a Latin dance class.
21. Brush your tongue and floss.
22. Buy dinner mints to keep by the bed.
23. Have a masturbation race, who’ll come first? Twice?
24. Go to the sexualtiy section of your library or local bookstore.
25. Set a date to have sex for two hours.
26. Reminisce about the first time you had sex together.
27. Perform oral sex on your partner while they’re on hold.
28. List 10 reasons not to have sex so you stay open and honest.
29. Flirt without hurting anyone.
30. Wear black fish-net stockings.
31. Tell your partner about your feelings for them with one minute of eye contact.
32. Dry-hump.
33. Make a gratitude list of everything you appreciate about your shared sexuality.
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