To build a relationship or friendship, you need openness and trust. Sincerity. You often have to go into your vulnerability and first of all try to understand and hear yourself. What's going on with you now? Why do you feel that way after these words or actions of your interlocutor? And how do you feel? Can you name this feeling? Sometimes it's not immediately clear. And then you should pay attention and examine yourself. I like to go deep. Into the depths of yourself, into the depths of the one who is opposite. It is important for me to understand what is behind all this and why it is for each of us. I'm not interested in superficial communication, chatting about clothes or discussing the personal lives of show business stars. This is not my story. But I am so happy when I realize that I have managed to build a strong friendship with my friends, I am glad when I have the courage to come and honestly talk about the fact that now something has gone wrong in one place. And be able to fix it, cure it where it hurts. And when you live at a distance, it's very, very easy to let everything go in one place. You don't need a lot of intelligence. You just need to pretend that everything is the same at a distance as it is up close. But no. Maintaining long-distance relationships and friendships has many nuances. Here any feeling, feelings can be hyperbolized, or vice versa silenced, hidden ... a lot depends on what rules of the game you set at the entrance. What is important to you in this friendship or in a relationship? How often do I call up, how often do I communicate? How often do I see you? And what is called support from a distance? And what is support for you anyway? Love? Friendship? And what is the purpose of all this?
