My line of work and relationships :) ** Please do not read i..
Published: January 9th 2021, 3:02:37 am
My line of work and relationships :) ** Please do not read if you’re not interested in my personal life. Sorry to disappoint again but this is not erotica hehe.
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I get asked all the time about my current relationship status. And yes, I do have a partner :). You can call him Box. He’s the counterpart to Perry. It sounds silly, but that’s what it is.
People are often shocked that I have a partner and I can totally understand why. Most people would feel uncomfortable, insecure, jealous etc. And my partner is no super human, he feels those things too (as you would expect).
“How can he be ok with this?” He’s ok now but he definitely wasn’t at first. In fact, he made it known that he would prefer I quit. He even offered to substitute my income by giving me an allowance equal to my weekly earnings. His biggest problem was insecurity.
In his words: “I had a big fear of you finding someone better than me, and that you might leave me for someone else because they’re better in bed, or better-looking, wealthier and everything like that.”
So he mainly tolerated my line of work for a few months. We established boundaries to navigate the insecurity/jealousy like regular reassurance, no uploading content with other males etc. His ability to understand and be content with my work was a gradual process.
In his words: “There was one tipping point. You said to me ‘you’re basically asking me to give up my income, my independence and rely on you. You fell in love with me because of my hustle and ambition. And now you’re taking it away, and that’s really selfish and unrealistic.’ But after a while, my insecurity stopped because we had been together for so long, and I truly began to believe you would always stay loyal to me. And to be honest, we get along really well, like really well. I don’t wanna take something that makes you so happy away from you. That would just be fucking rude.”
His answer’s were not very thorough (and I removed all the “ums” and “ahs”). To be honest, I interviewed him at a bad time while he was baking a pizza LOL but you get the gist :). Relationships sometimes call for compromise and adaptation. There are aspects of his life that I’ve had to learn to accept and be content with. For him, this is one of those things.
But of course, he’s not 100% shielded from the insecurity etc. We still both have bouts of problems that stem from my work but communication and patience can go a long way.
Have a lovely week everyone :). Friendly reminder to not discuss in person shenanigans or anything along those lines as it’s against OnlyFans terms and conditions.