I remember being pissed off by people who have no control ov..
Published: March 15th 2024, 2:19:02 am
I remember being pissed off by people who have no control over anything, just put me into a wild rage (only slightly annoyed now 😁)
I was so proud of my control over everything: the fact that I arrived to meetings an hour BEFORE, that I never messed up or forgot anything... and then I realized that I forget, mess up, make mistakes and shit happens to me just like all people; only I waste x10 effort and get a million times more frustrated if my control didn't work out.
Anxiety ≠ responsibility and foresight; you can be an anxious controller but take no real responsibility, nothing meaningful can ever be foreseen. This is most often the case... we control life so that we don't take responsibility. For mistakes, for failures, for decisions made; and also because we have no trust in ourselves, no foothold and no inner security.
To prepare multiple plans, you don't need anxiety, you need intelligence; to foresee, you don't need anxiety, you need experience and intelligence; to stay out of trouble you don't need anxiety, you need to be dead, because a living person will get into trouble from time to time, and make mistakes, that's life 😁 It's impossible to know everything, and it's impossible to get your ass under you in all cases either.
It turns out that it's easier to relax, be forward-thinking and responsible, but be able to give into the moment and deal with problems as they come 🌷
