Diary of a submissive part 18
Bodyfreedom and submission
One of my subscribers asked:
''Do you have any feelings on the recent Grammyβs event with Bianca Censori?"
My first reaction was that she was very brave to put herself out there like that. I thought she was really good at letting go of other people's opinions and doing what she wanted in life. In the ''Do epic shit'' category, it was absolutely epic! I have a lot of sheer clothes, but I had never seen a dress that sheer! I love people who are comfortable with their bodies and daring.
However, I must say that when I do expose myself, I'm careful not to do it in a way that might shock people. Still, I think there's a time for everything, and the time (or place) Bianca Censori chose may not have been ideal. I understand that some people were shocked. I understand that not everyone is comfortable with nudity or sexuality, for different reasons. Did she go too far? Maybe, in this case.
''Have you imagined yourself in her place?'' I imagined myself wearing the same dress as her, but not exactly in her place. I'm a bit shy, I don't want to be the center of attention. As I said, I don't like to shock, that's not my intention. What I'm looking for is freedom and the pleasure of doing things that are out of the ordinary. If, in return, people have unpleasant experiences because of me, I don't feel I'm promoting happiness.
Finally, what shocks many people is the impression that Bianca was forced to strip naked, that she was under her husband's control. Are they in a D/s relationship? We may never know. The most important thing about submission is that it is the submissive who makes the decision to give control to the dominant. The submissive is free to make this choice and does so with pleasure and trust. So if Bianca has made that choice, then I fully support her and her husband's attitude should be interpreted in that context. However, there's no denying that there are plenty of unhealthy relationships out there and I sincerely hope that's not the case here.
