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Tales From A Mommy Blog: Timeouts
Published: May 7th 2023, 3:00:03 pm
Ahh the old faithful. The tried and true method of giving your Adult Baby time to reflect. It is a simple, non-violent, yet effective way to teach them a lesson. With no necessary props, little to no prep-time, and no environmental restrictions, it can practically be used any time, any where.
The point of a timeout is obviously to give your diaper dependent the chance to think about what they’ve done, what they’re about to do, or to simply calm down.
In order for timeouts to be effective, they have to capitalize on a very important psychological effect:
Boredom.
You have to leave your Little alone with their thoughts. You have to make sure that the allotted time you give them is far past what is necessary. Allow their minds to wander. To make them dream up scenarios of what could happen if they continue to show poor behavior. Therefore, timeouts should last a bare minimum of 30 minutes. The average adult attention span begins to fizzle out after 20 minutes. So once their focus has dissolved, that’s where the boredom and daydreaming kicks in. After 60 minutes, their feeble mind is desperate for any form of entertainment. Something to distract them from watching the proverbial paint drying in front of them.
Don’t let them.
Leave them in that state. Ultimately, the amount time is up to you, and can be adjusted based on the severity of the infraction. I’ve known Mommies to keep their husbands in timeout for several hours. Older hubbies may have knee issues if they kneel for such a prolonged period, so I recommend giving them a pillow, stuffy, or at least a rug beneath them.
Timeouts can also serve as a predecessor to something that’s about to happen. If they know they’re going to get a spanking afterwards, they will spend the entire time dreading the inevitable. For those of you that indulge in the cuckold lifestyle, you can have him sit and think about what you and your Bull may do once he gets here. This ensures he can’t distract himself with his blocks, dollies, or rattles. The key point is to emphasize what is waiting for them after the time expires. Explicitly tell them (or have them tell you) what will be occurring before leaving them to stew with their own thoughts.
Speaking of stewing, it is also effective to have them spend their timeout in their wet or soiled pampers. I used this method many times when Benny first started with the diaper regiment. Let them kneel in their own filth for a while to really emphasize the feeling. Remind them to get used to it. Give them time to wrap their mind around it. This is their life now, or this is what’s in it for them if they misbehave. Dirty diaper timeouts should be limited to 30 minutes so as to not get a rash, unless that is your desired intention.
It goes without saying, but make sure they maintain their posture. Most timeouts will involve them kneeling, legs spread so as to let their diaper droop, back straight, and (ideally) body up off their ankles. The latter constraint will serve as an endurance exercise. Their legs will begin to quake and burn from having to hold themself up for such a long period. Use your discretion for how you want them positioned, just be sure to stay consistent.
There are, however, many ways you can make a timeout more entertaining for your Adult Baby, or for you if you so desire, so without for ado I’d like to share some with you:
Penny for your Thoughts
Simple, yet effective. Just place a penny–or any coin, really–flat against the wall and have your hubby press their nose into it. They must hold the coin against the wall for the duration of their timeout without letting it drop to the floor. Obviously their hands stay behind their back or behind their head as usual, but feel free to use restraints if their big dumb baby brains can’t grasp the ‘nose only’ concept. The best part is you don’t have to directly monitor them during the process. I can be in the other room, and if I hear the coin clank against the floor, Benny gets sent to the spanking spot (see my previous post) and then it’s back to timeout with a blistered bottom and a fresh timer.
Mushy Smushy
I like to use this one when the reason for the timeout involves something about Benny’s diaper. For instance, the other day Benny was stomping his feet in anger that I wouldn’t change his messy diaper. I was going to do it once I finished eating, but he just could not seem to wait. So, I gave him what he wanted. I changed his stinky, icky diaper, balled it up, and set it aside. He smiled victoriously, as if he won his own adorable little battle. It was honestly kind of cute, watching him feel like he had some semblance of control again. But I had the last laugh.
“I think someone needs a time out.” I told him, watching his face plummet. He knew better than to argue, just obediently crawled to his spot.
“When I tell you ‘not right now’,” I hissed in his ear, making sure he understood the reason for his punishment, “It means ‘not right now’. You will wait until Mommy decides the appropriate time.”
I placed his poopy present up against the wall, using my eyes to tell him what was next. He was crying genuine tears as he leaned forward and smushed his face into the mushy outside of his messy diaper. He got to hold that there until he could finally understand that the smell is inconvenient at best, and is not something that a Mommy should have to deal with in the middle of a meal.
He got to huff his own filth until I deemed it fit that he had learned his lesson.
Wall Wiggles
It doesn’t have to all be cruel and unusual punishment, though. Sometimes when Benny gets let out of his cage I’ll let him go to his spot for some ‘corner time’. How I let him cum in his diapers usually varies depending on my mood, but it’s definitely always in his diaper. Sometimes he gets a vibrator or a good old fashioned hand to use on the outside. Other times he gets to hump the floor, or his Teddy. But one of the most entertaining ways is to have him use the wall.
I had a friend over last week and, let me tell you, there are few things more entertaining than watching your significant other struggle to make himself orgasm by wriggling himself against the wall. It’s an awkward position, one they’re not used to using. They have to jut their hips forward in order to make contact with the sheetrock, but they can’t really get enough leverage unless they really get into it. They don’t have gravity to help them keep contact with the surface the way they do if they were –say–on the floor.
I even made him talk dirty to the wall while he was working himself back and forth on it. When I tell you that listening to your husband talk to the inanimate object he’s humping is the most hilarious thing, you should definitely believe me. See it for yourself!
After he’s done and has spent himself into his diaper, make him sit in his sticky shame for at least another half hour until his post-nut clarity wears off and his cum crusts up the inside.
Dick Clicks
Benny recently shared his desire to be “forced” to pleasure other men. Obviously, that’s certainly something I would like to see. But I'll be damned if I bring a guy over and have Benny embarrass me with second-rate blowjob skills. So, if you have a sissy too, I highly recommend you get a suction cup dildo for them to practice on! It can stick to any surface, so it can be put on the wall or on the floor, so they can suck or bounce their way through a nice little timeout training session!
Benny was especially bad at taking it deep, so I installed a tally counter at the top of the dildo. That way he has to take it alll the way down his throat in order to press the counter with his nose.
It’s amazing how just 100 counts a day can quickly teach them to control their gag reflex!
Word Wash
I’ve been trying to get Benny used to not using his ‘big boi’ words when around the house. God forbid he say a curse word, or even one with too many syllables. Adult Babies shouldn’t have such a profound vernacular. They should be lisping and stuttering and speaking in only one or two syllables.
Benny made the mistake of saying “precarious” the other day while at a restaurant. Can you believe that? He realized his mistake shortly after he saw the look on my face. So as soon as we got home he found himself getting a bar of soap shoved in his mouth before being put against the wall for a timeout.
They also make what I like to call ‘sissy soap', where the soap literally comes in the shape of a penis!
This can be combo’d with the Dick Clicks from above. Because things made of soap are impressionable, it is easy to monitor whether or not your little one is using teeth! Which is certainly a no-no with anything that may be shoved in their mouth.
Reflection Reflections
Remember that one of the biggest reasons for a timeout is to give them time to meditate on their actions. And what better way to have them reflect than to literally make them stare at their reflection?
Putting them in front of a mirror forces them to come face to face with their choices. Whether they wanted to be dressed like a baby or not, they are now given a full view of what their new life looks like. When Benny is being made to dress particularly femmy, he gets to see what a pretty gurl Mommy can turn him into. He has to stare at his little pigtails, his made-up face, and how his diaper/cleavage looks under his new dress.
Mirror time also pairs well with the Dick Clicks from above. They get to see what they look like when they take a big, fat cock in their mouth. This helps them learn how to look sexy when they do it, and there are few things as damaging to a male ego as coming face to face with themselves while deepthroating a dildo.
Feel free to hang a paper with instructions or affirmations that keep them on task and thinking about the things you want them to think about.
Peas and Rice
This one is particularly cruel, so don’t go into it lightly. It should only be used for the most egregious of infractions and you must have a safeword handy.
In the old days—which is how you know this is barbaric—parents would sometimes punish by making the subject kneel on piles of uncooked rice, oats, or frozen peas. Kneeling on just a hardwood floor can be painful enough over time, but now imagine if the floor was made of thousands of grainy needles. The rice will press painfully into their skin—not enough to do damage—but certainly make the process that much more uncomfortable. Peas are the lesser of the 3 evils, as they have a wider surface area and will eventually thaw and become softer.
Regardless, it is recommended that you be lenient on the timeframe if you use this method. So perhaps use it as a quick way to punish them with a timeout when you are short on time.
Aftercare
Yes, I always end these guides with Aftercare because it is extremely important. Your little will be sad, remorseful, and vulnerable after their solitary confinement. So once their time expires, put them in your arms, rub their back, and ask them if they’ve learned their lesson. I often find it’s like turning on a spout of tears and “sorry’s”. They just spent hour(s) thinking up what to say for an apology, so let them get it all out.
Allow them to breastfeed or have a bottle to calm them down. Rock them back and forth, whisper and coo and do all the things Mommies do.
I guarantee you after their first, proper timeout, you will have a much more well behaved husband. And they will have learned that something which was once a relatively easy punishment when they were younger, can be much more demanding and arduous at their current age.
Stay tuned for more tips and tricks, and let me know if there are other guides you’d like me to write as well!
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