Published: April 12th 2016, 12:03:21 am
SEX TIP: Recently I reprinted more Monsterbating Monsters -- a coloring book of my monster drawings and masturbation suggestions. Before running the copies I made sure to re-read it all and update as necessary. In case you haven’t read it, I highly recommend it! dftba.com/sexplanations.
You can click here to watch me color a page and hear what my then, kids, now, kid, think about my job: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2wINLlD37zY
and you can click here to play a video of me cooking monster cookies from a recipe in the book’s introduction: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DNZ9vj7z7lI
The reason I bring all this up is because my review of the books and its/my masturbation tips reminded me how powerfully masturbation can affect partnered sex! For me it’s a way to relieve pressure so I’m not in such dire need of sex with someone else; it rejuvenates my body, or at least feels like it does; it refreshes my fantasies and arousal cycle so I’m more familiar with it later; it reacquaints me with my body in a oh!-that’s-what-that-feels-like-now kind of way. Masturbation, like the coloring book teaches, does not have to be a precursor to anything but it can be. Sure, use it as practice, but more than that use it to improve your sexuality, which in turns improves your sex life.