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Sex Tip: Have noisy sex. That doesn’t necessarily mean loud sex. It means sex that is full of meaningful noises to communicate passion, indifference, excitement, need for change, desire, level of arousal, your needs, your fears, silliness, joy. Make a list (in your new notebook/computer doc) of 100 things you might want to communicate in a sex session and try them out. Test your sounds by yourself or with a partner. Without using words, make these 100 different noises and ask yourself or your partner if the intent (what you want to communicate) matches the impact (how the message is received). Here’s a list of sounds to get you started: laughter (no way, you’re adorable, you’re clever, that looks funny, that was a funny move, this is so fun, I’m thrilled, I’m nervous, please give me some encouragement, try again, that’s not happening, I got your sarcasm); sighs (not again, how beautiful, wow, I’m fulfilled, you’re so special to me, I love you, I’m frustrated, I’m a dragon, wrestle with me); moans, cries, animal sounds, grunts, breaths, whistles... and so on. Stay curious!

Published: April 19th 2015, 8:57:04 pm

Sex Tip: Have noisy sex. That doesn’t necessarily mean loud sex. It means sex that is full of meaningful noises to communicate passion, indifference, excitement, need for change, desire, level of arousal, your needs, your fears, silliness, joy. Make a list (in your new notebook/computer doc) of 100 things you might want to communicate in a sex session and try them out. Test your sounds by yourself or with a partner. Without using words, make these 100 different noises and ask yourself or your partner if the intent (what you want to communicate) matches the impact (how the message is received). Here’s a list of sounds to get you started: laughter (no way, you’re adorable, you’re clever, that looks funny, that was a funny move, this is so fun, I’m thrilled, I’m nervous, please give me some encouragement, try again, that’s not happening, I got your sarcasm); sighs (not again, how beautiful, wow, I’m fulfilled, you’re so special to me, I love you, I’m frustrated, I’m a dragon, wrestle with me); moans, cries, animal sounds, grunts, breaths, whistles... and so on. Stay curious!