Tip: To get things started, you’ll want to have a higher sense of awareness about how you give and receive affection. Gary Chapman wrote a popular book called the Five Love Languages and an online tool to help you determine which of the five love languages you speak the most fluently (link below). When it comes to sex with others, knowing their languages is essential. You may not speak the same ones but you’ll certainly be better off knowing that what you’re experiencing is a disconnect in metaphorical vocabulary, not sexual or intimate interest.
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