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📚 Dating Advice | A Series To Help With Your Game 🔐 How to c..

Published: September 5th 2023, 7:36:14 am

📚 Dating Advice | A Series To Help With Your Game 🔐 How to connect with quality women at the GYM - Its NOT what you think. A LOT of you ask the question, "How do you approach women at the Gym?" In the culture we live in, approaching women at the gym seems like a monumental task. It seems next to IMPOSSIBLE. But... There is a TECHNIQUE. There is a SECRET. First and foremost, you SHOULD be at the gym following the training program I have set out for you. Don't be LAZY! This will lead to an ancillary point... Your PHYSICALITY. You should LOOK like you are there to fucking workout. Don't be a skinny bit*h trying to pick up a woman at the gym when you look like you CLEARLY do not work out. You will come off like a creep. Don't be a fucking creep. APPEARANCE is everything. Now, the meat of the matter...The best way to build rapport at the gym is to simply introduce yourself AFTER her set and ask if she is doing another. I know this seems simple, however, I promise this opens the door to other questions and scenarios. You have done something MONUMENTAL. You broke the ICE. Holy SHIT. I know this seems obvious but we all ask this question at the gym and its not weird to say. Here is an example: **"Hey are you hitting another set after the last one? You seem like you really know what you're doing."** Sure I added a small compliment but it relates to her COMPOTENCY about what she is DOING not her looks. **Yea? Okay nice, by the way my name is [blank], Are you following some program right now?** This is where you make small talk about your surrounding and where you connected. Use the post about conversational threading to add to this and IDEAS to come to you while you continue the conversation. It does not need to be long. You are NOT trying to get the number (realistically Instagram) the first time. If you do, great. If you find yourself in the scenario where you can, do this... **"Seems like you're pretty cool, what's your IG? I want to follow you."** From here you should make easy conversation. Then once you have been verified that you are not some weirdo when she validates your IG (your dating profile essentially) ask her to get drinks or coffee. *NOTE - Women at the gym will be more health conscious. Thus she will be less likely to go for drinks. Want to learn more KEY information like this? Join the Coaching Program by sending a Message! To the Moon 🌙