Before you start reading - I had to change 2 words, as OF ce..
Published: June 21st 2022, 11:52:29 am
Before you start reading - I had to change 2 words, as OF cencorship dosn't allow using them. So please dont be surprised when you see words like : "bllood" or "c_hild" 😋
So, it’s time to shed a bit more light on a few frequently asked aspects of our marriage/relationship … between all 3 of us 😊 . First off ( since I get asked this daily ) hubby had sex with me last time at the end of year 2021, so at this day he is pussy free for 6,5 months 😊 . Hubby is not caged … at least yet 😊 . We have never discussed this yet ( the whole cage thing ), and I personally prefer to see hubby hard as a rock while he watches me either passionately making love with „B” … or „B” fcuking me hard, like I am his plaything 🥰 . I like to see hubby get so horny, so hard … being almost there, but still not being able to touch me 😊, since only „B” can touch and fuck me 😊 .
Hubby can ofc touch me in a few different ways … he can eat my pussy, which he is doing regularly 😊. We are ofc sleeping with each other in one bed ( as we are still married 😋 ), we are always hugging and snuggling together as well 😊 . „B” has all this as well, and way moooore 😁
About creampies … we have just started with „B” actually cumming inside me, but for now topic of hubby cleaning up isn't on our minds that much 😜 . For now we are all in on the issue of having a baby 😊
And yes, it’s time to talk about pregnancy and why and how we want to do it. It’s a bit of a longer story, but a short – simplefied version sound like this : more or less 3 years ago we wanted to have our first baby ( end goal is to have two kids 😊 ). We have tried ( me and hubby ) for a little more than a year, and with no effects we started to visit all sorts of doctors. After a lenghty proces of tests and visits it was revealed that hubby suffers from asthenospermia – which means that his „swimmers” arent as fast/agile as they should be ( less than 32% of them by definition ). For the next half a year hubby changed his diet, habbits, he quit smoking, started taking some meds that were suppose to help etc. But after another 6 months we were in the same place … with no kids. All of this issues and trying without any effect took quite a toll on us both, since it was now more or less 2 years of trying to conceive. After many long conversations about it we decide to take a break, and return to this topic some time later – that was about 1 year ago.
After give or take 3 months hubby started to tease me with an idea of getting pregnant by „B”… just as a fantasy only ofc 😋 , it was just to turn me on and make me wet … at least that what I thought at the time 😝 ( hubby knew what he was doing 😅 ). As you might guess my initial reaction was „you must be kidding right ?!?” which he ofc confirmed, that he is just talking about it as a fantasy - nothing more, as I didnt even wanted to hear such „crazy ideas” at the time 😝. But hubby deliberetly seeded the idea in my head, and he purposefully let it „grow” for some time … telling me from time to time how hot it would be if I got pregnant by „B”, and no one from our family or friends would now about it, when they would play with him/her ( our ch_ild ) 😊 . Hubby was pretty persistent, and he would tell me a lot of crazy stories ( just as a foreplay ) shortly before every time „B” was visiting us 😊 . I admit that after some time the idea really started to intigue me, and I started to fantasize what if it really happend 😊. I gradually started to think how it would look like, how we would need to cover this so our family would never knew the truth. Hubby must have picked up on this, and again started to „fantasize” with me about the whole logistic side of this process 😌 . We started to plan it just as a fantasy ofc 😊 , how we would do it, what about bllood type, cuz usually a c_hild gets his/her bllood type from one of the parents, or a certain mix, which can be checked. So in theory it would be possible to see that our c_hild wasnt hubby’s – just looking at his/her bllood type. Both me and hubby have most commont A Rh+ bllood type, so it was important what type „B” has. We remembered that he got tested after He was away for a year with his new job, and we had that test saved somewhere on our PC as a PDF file 😊. We quickly checked it, and were more than happy to see that he has A Rh+ as well 🤩. All the pieces started to slowly fit in their place, and slowly, after every new potantial issue got resolved we both started to notice how invested we are in this „just theoretical” pregnancy 😊. We both decided at the same time that we need to talk about this … about how do we really feel about it etc. After many, maaaaany long conversations, I noticed that my hubby is strangely more prepared for this 😂 , it looked like he was thinking about it more, and for much longer period of time😋. Every issue that we could think of regarding having a c_hild with „B” – hubby already had a prepared answer and solution 😁 . That showed me that this was something that he really researched and prepared for … and was ready. Alhough he denies it now - that he planned all of this waaaay back, over a year ago, I am almost certain now, that he „programmed” me again for this … just as it was with the whole cuckold / hotwife lisetyle back in a day 😝 . Finally we have reached a conclusion, that both me and hubby are ready and we do want a c_hild, even if it wont by hubby’s 😊 . Now the only issue left was „B’s” reaction to all of this, and if he will be willing to „help us” 😍 , although for now you all know what his decision was 🥰
There was ofc some additional boundaries that needed to be placed, as we want to make sure that our first c_hild wont know who his/her biological father is 😐 . I know it may be contoversial 😔, but we want him/her to know hubby as a father figure. „B” is kind of a free spirit, and almost a hippie you could say ( which was visible by his clothes while we were on our first vacations 😋 ), so he didn't have much problems with this whole idea ofc 😊 . Also, hubby remembered when „B” said looong ago ( when we first met him), that he don't want to have c_hildren … like ever 😝 . So hubby knew ( as he explained to me ) that ”B” would be a perfect candidate for a baby daddy 🥰, cuz there is a very low chance of him ever wanting to suddenly be in our c_hild's life as his real father – which we ofc also thought about. What if the „real father” decides after few years that he wants to be in his c_hild's life, and comes forward and tells him/her everything . At this point we know „B” so well that we know there is very low, almost no chances for this. But we want to prepare even for this. We still are working on some sort of a legal agreement, that would prohibit „B” from revealing himself his our c_hild ( I know this may be a bit controversial 😐 ) . We have talked with some lawyers, and we have a initial draft of this kind of arragement, where the details are ofc a bit changed 😶 . „B” is listed as a sperm donor, and pregnancy is due via invitro 😜 ( that was a really „fun” talking over with our lawyer 😑 ). In the end we are quite sure it will all go well, and we even prepared to have „B” in our ( and our c_hild ) life permanently … as a family friend/uncle type of figure 😊 .
If all goes well, and we will gain enough funds ( it just needs to stay the current level on OF ) we will completely pay our mortgage in about 1,5 year ( for our flat ). What that happens we want to take a new mortgage and buy some land ( between 1 and 2 hectare ) and build our house there. It would be a cheaper, wood house, as normal brick houses are waaaaaay to expensive for us 😛 . But it would be build in about 3-4 months 😊. After that we already talked with „B” and we would give him a portion of that land ( legally as his own ), so he could build his own house there - also from wood. It would be something like 5x7 meters with 2 floors, something like this :
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hv4HQPaJrkc&ab_channel=KAPURDESIGN
All 3 of us are really into green living, having our own eletrycity ( from solar panels ) and water ( from a well with a pump and filtering system ), having a little farm vegatables etc … but I wont bore you with all this for now 😋 . „B” dosn't look for anyone ( like all my previous lovers ), and don’t plan on being in a separate, serious relationship … so it is really an ideal situation for all of us 😊. And yes, if everything goes as planned, „B” will be a permanent part of our life ( and most importantly mine 🥰 ), as much as we will be his 😊 . Living together on one land would be perfect, as he would have contact with his c_hild, and could see it grow, could be involved in his/her life … in a capacity that he would feel comfortable with 😊 . This will be also a perfect solution for having "B" more in my life, as I don't imagine not having sex with Him, and current babymaking process is the hottes sexual experience in my life to date 🥰. I personally love to tease hubby after "B" cums inside of me, and I am snuggling with Him, while hubby serves us water and towels ... and we ( me and "B" ) start to talk about potential names for the baby 😈. I love to see the look on hubbys face when me and "B" are decideng on the baby name 🥰. This now is the next leve of this lifestyle, that we love it 😈
So … please remember that this is a very shortened version of all that has happened, and the real process of getting where we are with all of of those decisions was very slow, complicated, hard and emotional 😊 . Even now I feel like I am rambling already, as writing all of this made me again a bit emotional, and a bit turned on as well 😊. This i how it all looks like right now, and we will inform all of you with any new development in our lives 😊