Today I would like to express my indignation about the amount of content on the topic of "what a man should be" and how much a man owes a woman.
And a lot of inadequate noise around the topic of relationships.
Today I want to talk about the pressure that goes on men. "You must be strong", "you must not show your emotions", "you must provide for your family", "you must delight and please your woman", "you must always be in a good mood", "you must not lose your temper", "you must serve your country", "you must protect your family". "you must provide your children with a stable future", "you must get a good education", "you must be able to fight", "you must play sports", "you must look after yourself so that women love you", "you must be the first in everything", "you must know a lot", "you should be responsible for your whole family", "you should have a hobby", "you should be able to drive", "you should have your own place", "you should be patient", "you should love one woman your whole life", "you should be a great lover", "you should have a big dick", "you should be tall". And that's not the whole list, where a man owes everybody something all the time.
And what do you get for it? What does the world promise you?
Are you promised a mythical princess from fairy tales that you have to save? Or the love and respect of your parents and their friends? The fear of your enemies? The admiration of future generations? The minute-by-minute delight of a stranger who saw your abs on the beach ?
Or the 1,000 likes on your Facebook photo?
There are suspicions that a man, who has no less spectrum of emotions and feelings than a woman, and sometimes even more sensitive ones, are left untidy and misunderstood.
That awkward moment when everyone is afraid of the big but harmless dog and treats him like a guard dog.
If you're strong, then you can be hit.
And if you're strong, that means you can't say anything to it, you have no right to respond, you have no right to complain.
You are in a state of constant competiti
