GOOD SEX I've just read the letter in the November 1970 Play..
Published: September 21st 2023, 5:31:06 am
GOOD SEX
I've just read the letter in the November 1970 Playboy
Woman in Frankfurt, Germany, who criticizes the sexual prowess of the American male. I agree with her. I feel that my husband has a lot to learn. But he seems so embarrassed about most things that I suggest, that we don't communicate very much in our marriage.
My husband simply doesn't take long enough to make love to me and I rarely reach a climax before he does. After his climax, he wants to rest, so I pretend I am satisfied and let him be. I have tried to tell him I need more loving, but he doesn't catch on. Sometimes, when it's wonderful, I tell him I wish we could make it like that every time.
I feel so alone at times that I finally started an affair with a man five years younger than myself. It has been great, but I don't want to hurt my husband, since he is so good to me and our two children. I've tried to stay away from the other man, but when I go without sexual satisfaction for too long, I begin to feel as if I am losing my mind. Is it I who needs help, or my husband?
(Name withheld by request)
Waco, Texas
