CUCK TAKEOVER: GETTING YOUR PARTNER INTO CUCKOLDING
I get a lot of questions from wannabe cucks asking how to me*et a girl that is into cuckolding or how to 'convince' your wife to explore the scene etc and to be honest, I have no experience with that because I have always been into cuckolding, so... every couple of weeks or so I will get my cuckold to take over and do a post about broaching kink with women and what it's like from the cucks angle.
Take it away cuck:
BECOMING A CUCK
Hey guys, so the first thing that I wanted to do is give you a little bit of background information on me and my perspective so that in the coming weeks when I move on to answering some of these questions you may have, you understand the experience that I have.
I have been in two long term kink relationships and multiple little kink flings which were casual romantically.
You know a lot about the relationship that I'm in now, with my Queen. It is a spectacular relationship because in essence, she was the one who initiated the kink side to me. She is an incredibly intelligent woman both in reality and sexually. The difference between this relationship and other encounters that I've had with kink with other women is that she has knowledge and passion. If a woman has no knowledge of this kink and you want her to dominate you, it's not going to work because you're going to be 'topping from the bottom' or else you're going to be able to predict her every move because you are the one with the superior experience of the fantasies.
However, I still think areas of the kink can be observed. You can still witness your girlfriend have sex with other men and experience the intimacy of a cuckolding relationship without ever experiencing the much craved, 'femdom aspect'. It is important to a lot of people but in my experience, it is incredibly rare for a woman to possess such instincts.
My first romantic kink relationship was with a woman who was interested in having sex in front of people and sex with other women. This wasn't immediately apparent and it certainly wasn't as straightforward as her telling me from the beginning. In fact, it took maybe a year before I exposed any sort of kinky thought that I had to her, which is never the right thing to do. If you're not open from the start or you're not honest as soon as possible... you're never going to get the relationship you want. If you hide a kink from your lover for years, you can't expect to form the deep trust that it takes to form this sort of relationship.
So how did ICuckoldress and I do it? We were HONEST from the very beginning. Within the first three weeks, she knew every single sexual kink I had and she knew every single weird sexual experience I've had. She told me her every kink and told me her fantasies regarding cuckolding, which drove me wild. I have been honest with other girls in the past and rejected. That is fine. Why would I want someone who isn't right for me?
So how did it go with the girl who was into swinging? After a year, it was a long process of releasing little bits of information about what I was into and every single little bit over time was a hurdle that had to be overcome in the relationship because it was a breach of trust to the point where we could actually be honest enough to experiment with each other.
If you're already in a relationship with someone who you haven't been honest with about your sexual kink, you need to broach the subject carefully and with caution. There are some women who are never going to be openminded enough to actually enjoy this lifestyle and you can never 'make' them do it but there are ways of testing the waters and seeing if they might like it.
My number one tip would be to introduce three things... Dirty talk... Watching Porn together... then a dildo.
When having sex with your wife/girlfriend, begin to ask her about her previous sexual experiences. Ask her to tell you the story of sexual conquests she had before you. When she is describing her sexual experiences with other men, express to her how much that is turning you on, tell her you wish that you could have been able to watch her fuck him. Express to her that it turns you on to imagine her with other men. This can be a very gradual thing and it can take a while to get used to dirty talk if confidence is low.
When you have successfully introduced that thought, begin to watch porn with her. See what she is into, the cuckolding journey needs to go in her direction not yours. Icuckoldress loves black men and big cocks. That is the direction that our cuckolding relationship needs to go. Your direction may be her exploring bdsm or groupsex with other men... You'll only find that out by watching porn.
FInally, introduce a dildo, this will start to introduce the thought of her sexual pleasure being fulfilled by other people and things other than you.
