So more fun stories about my ex since a lot of you guys are ..
Published: April 9th 2022, 4:45:01 am
So more fun stories about my ex since a lot of you guys are curious from my last post lol!
We were only dating for a few months. I had tried to break up with him multiple, multiple times. He pressured me into sex and doing things I didn't want to like meit his friends +family (constantly), guilt tripped me for saying no to anything, wasn't happy for my achievements (when I got a good job offer, he simply told me I had gotten it because I was lucky for example),.
But my biggest issue was that I just couldn't leave. He always held something valuable against me because my stuff was at his house. Whenever I would try to end it, the situation was always "you have to talk this out with me first otherwise I'm not going to give back your stuff." His version of "talk this out" was trying to force me into getting back with him. And he did this pretty well! He would say things like : look at what I've done for you, nobody else is going to treat you like this, you've already met all my friends + family and basically pull up any leverage he had against me.
I eventually broke up with him even though he still had all my belongings hostage at his house. >_> I obviously knew I was going to lose my valuables, but I literally had no choice lol!
Anyway when we broke up, he returned most of my belongings (that were at his place) but chose to be petty about it. For example, returned my computer but didn't return my mouse/keyboard/hard drive. He returned my sex toy chargers but didn't return the sex toys themselves. Anyway he basically did this for all of my belongings. He also took all my Christmas gifts back, but kept the ones I gave him. All in all, I think that break up cost me over 5000$ worth of my belongings. He demanded $2000 cash which I caved and gave to him because I was scared he wouldn't return my belongings).So basically I lost a lot of my valuables like my marie mur harness set you guys love, some high value tech things like Bluetooth earphones and some designer items).
Later I contacted his exes, and found out he was trying to cheat (he messaged his exes to meit) and we all found out he had the same manipulative behaviour. I also found out he fed lies to all of us about us!
He's blocked me now and he also refused to return my dad's citizenship certificate and my family's belongings too! My mum tried to contact him through another number, and he claimed he had 'posted' it. However, he blocked her after that call and refused to tell us where he posted it from.
We also contacted Australia Post and they said nobody tried to post anything under his name, number and nobody tried to post to my name, address or number either.
Anyway I was pretty used to him lying and it was to be expected. I faced some pretty hefty losses, but I think it was a pretty cheap price to pay to get away from an emotionally abusive person. :) Anyway that's the story! XD
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Edit: I have filed a police report against him already but I didn't really have evidence that he had some of my stuff still (I mean how do you even prove that anyway?). I believe in karma though, so I think some bad JuJu is coming his way soon. ;P
