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From Then to Now: How My Femdom Philosophy Was BornIt feels ..

Published: November 22nd 2024, 4:20:23 pm

From Then to Now: How My Femdom Philosophy Was Born

It feels like I got so caught up in our denial dynamic, that I kinda forgot: not everyone knows me as well as they could.

I got so wrapped up in the practical part of my femdom that I didn’t really stop to show you who I am behind all this. And let’s be real, to feel what I’m about, you need to know what’s driving me when I’m in control. 

My fascination with controlling men started long before OnlyFans. I’ve shared some of it here: https://onlyfans.com/1218624255/brattydeviless.

But there’s something I haven’t talked about much.

People around me have always turned to me for support, whether it’s advice or just taking charge of things when they couldn’t. I’ve always had this way of seeing right through people, picking up on their real intentions—even when they’re not ready to admit them. And yeah, people stuck around because they trusted me to handle things and keep it real.

When it came to men, though, I figured out pretty quick what works for me and what doesn’t. I know my worth, and I know what kind of man deserves to be in my life.

I won’t settle for someone who just sees a “pretty face” and doesn’t get my real value. If he can’t respect me, be my support and treat me the way I deserve... He’s out. 

I don’t need a man to feel whole—because my most fulfilling relationship is the one I have with myself. So my full attention and focus on man isn't charity. He has to earn it. If he can’t see my value, he doesn’t get my attention.

All in all, every man I’ve dealt with has made me realize: what I’ll put up with, what’s a dealbreaker, and most importantly, what kind of man I actually want around me.

For me, the right man isn’t scared of my power—he’s inspired by it.
He’s all in—attentive, proactive, and showing me he’s here through actions, not just words. He doesn’t try to “be in charge” or take over my power. That's the kind of man I’m willing to let into my life. 

This whole realization is the base of my femdom philosophy.
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