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Hey all! I’ll be sharing my party turn out from last night! ..

Published: December 8th 2024, 6:05:04 pm

Hey all! I’ll be sharing my party turn out from last night! First with the ladies 😍 but first…. How about a fun blog post on how these parties get setup 😅

First off, we aren’t professional “content creators”. We are swingers. We’ve always take videos and of course loved seeing a demand for our fun! We get together with real, amateur women & couples. Yes, many of them also do onlyfans but we don’t find professional photographers or incentivize people to attend. It’s just a bunch of everyday swingers getting together to have fun together. That’s why we truly do include people that reach out as long as we have mutual attraction 😊

For men, I try to actually allow guys that say they have interest. As long as they fit my criteria (which has some gray areas), I’m open to them. I always tell guys it’s a long wait list and you get one shot! I look for men 25-35, fit with muscles (not skinny fit), and a big dick (7”+) ideally. So that’s a good background into last night 😂

For privacy reasons I’ll broaden the reasons people gave me below as some were very specific 🤣

We had 2 single ladies and one couple set to come out. Out of that 2 ladies showed up! Not bad. The other couple said “their babysitter had to cancel as they’re leaving to go oversees soon”. Seems fine. I get it. Babysitters are hard to find

Here’s where the fun starts. We invited over 35 men on our list!!! Out of those, we pushed 15 to verification and confirmation. We start this process 2 weeks in advance and have been continuously correspond they are attending every 2-3 days to avoid guys saying “oh I forgot”. With that being said going into the week we did a Monday confirmation and got 10/15 saying they were good 😍

Fast forward to last night…. Here are the excuses 1. “I’m actually feeling really nervous and don’t think I should attend”, 2. “My chilled just went to the ER” 3. “I got called into work” 4. “I’ll be there at 10” (party started at 6) 5. “My best friend is flying into town” 6. “I am actually leaving for Africa Sunday morning” and then there were a few no response or just last minute “can’t make it”. Funny enough had zero car issues in this round of excuses.

So for the single guys that are always so adamant that “I want to join”! Do you really? 😅😂 can you perform under pressure with a full room of people and lights / cameras on you?

I have a good time no matter what. But if you’re ever wondering why doesn’t Lexi have more gang bangs or crazy sex party releases lately? It’s typically because there are a LOT of flakes in the lifestyle. Most common it’s men that jerk off and lose the excitement of joining. Women actually are much better at follow through as long as you’re communicating with the woman 😂 most couples that flaked on us in the past we realized we never verified the female.

Anyways - we made a Christmas movie 😍 I think you’re going to love these ladies and we kept the tradition going! I hope this can help you and your significant other navigate the swing lifestyle. Don’t take it offensive if someone bails on you. Lots of people flake on me all the time 😘