When to support your beautiful trans LDR?
My weekly column that you can skip if you're only here for Amber.😉
To get back to the subject, you found the beautiful trans woman you have been dreaming of, in an online dating site but can't jump on a airplane this weekend? How to make it last until you can visit her? My advice, do not financially support someone until you have met them in person. Foreigners supporting long distance relationships are referred to as 'sponsors'. Number one is, how much financial weight are you willing to carry as a sponsor? Is your girl is the eldest in the family, it's quite normal in Asia that she financially supports her parents and siblings. Tuition, medical bills, electric bills you get the idea.
Many trans women are well educated and quite independent, finding good paying jobs in the BPO (business process outsourcing) industry. These type of women won't need money to 'load' their phones so they can talk to you. They are also looking for a serious and lasting relationship. If that's what you want then there will be little to no talk about money before your first meeting in real life.
I would start by video chatting on a daily basis, see if she is interested too in your life. And before you know it, you'll be holding your perfect partner in your arms that loves you for who you are, not how much you can give. At this point, you can shower her with gifts!😅
- Jake
