So obviously y'all hit the tip goal, and fucking FAST, which means the topless set will be coming soon.
Went through a bit of an intense crisis with someone close to me recently and that unfortunately triggered some pretty challenging trauma responses for me.
I've been trying to work very gently with myself so this phase of the responses can hopefully pass quickly, but if you don't see as much of me yet that's why.
I have to get myself back into a more regulated state before I can move beyond my sorta bare minimum stuff here.
I'll be honoring the deal I said with the tip goal, people who tip on there before Wednesday will still be included and I'll cut it off after midnight. After that, folks will have to buy the set once it drops.
And going back to the whole trauma thing, I just wanted to say I'm partially sharing this because I know I'm not alone. I know some of you are working with intense feelings in response to your current or past experiences, and if it's hard for you, that's ok. It's ok to not feel ok sometimes. It's ok if it can feel like a struggle to keep yourself anywhere near your typical baseline.
Be kind to yourself. Let this be a reminder to offer yourself some grace because this life is undeniably beautiful, and also deeply painful.
If you're riding the struggle bus with me at the moment, high five - we've made it this far already and we can keep going. Let's be REALLY fucking nice to ourselves and each other while we're on this ride. And when we do finally get off, let's remember to extend that grace to others around us because we never know what another person is really going through behind the masks they're forced to wear.
You are loved. You are appreciated. You got this.
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