Hi beautiful friends 🥰 I hope you're having a wonderful summer. Mine has been lovely here in the PNW! Since visiting family at the end of last month, I had a bit of a difficult time getting back in touch with my sexual self. That sort of energy disappears pretty quickly when I visit home, so it took some time, patience, and creativity to feel sensual again.
One of the things I love about @Ben_Adventure and I's relationship and about our sex is that if something isn't working for any reason, we are always able to adjust. Last night we wanted to be intimate and both wanted connection, but penetration just wasn't feeling good for me. So we took our time building pleasure slowing, playing with all the other things like breast massage, clit stimulation, and I had a wonderful orgasm from his fingers being just inside the opening of my pussy 🤤
The point is, sex isn't always what you think it "should" look like, or what it may "normally" be for you. And the best way to navigate that is with curiosity and an open mind. We find ways to connect and make each other feel good (and make myself feel good), even when certain things aren't having the effect we want.
Take care of your body and mind today, and be kind to yourself ❤️
