ishynya

Recently someone asked me on reddit how to learn to accept yourself. I'm certainly not the best person to talk about it, but I'm much more accepting of myself now than before. the most important thing to understand is that you will never be liked by all people. There will always be those who will like you the way you are and those who will never like you. all people are different, everyone has different genetics and everyone sees other people in their own eyes in different ways. when I was at university, the girl who talked to me really liked one boy from another group. for me, this boy seemed even ugly. and in the same way, those people that I like, other people do not like. stop clinging to what you don't like about yourself, emphasize your personality and what makes you different from others. don't hide your features, try to love it. other people see you differently than you see yourself. but they can see your confidence (all this was said by a person who still has complexes because of his thinness, but I no longer hide it) #cosplay #smalltits #gamergirl #egirl #teen #schoolgirl #skirt #fishnet

Published: April 8th 2022, 2:00:10 am

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Recently someone asked me on reddit how to learn to accept yourself. I'm certainly not the best person to talk about it, but I'm much more accepting of myself now than before. the most important thing to understand is that you will never be liked by all people. There will always be those who will like you the way you are and those who will never like you. all people are different, everyone has different genetics and everyone sees other people in their own eyes in different ways. when I was at university, the girl who talked to me really liked one boy from another group. for me, this boy seemed even ugly. and in the same way, those people that I like, other people do not like. stop clinging to what you don't like about yourself, emphasize your personality and what makes you different from others. don't hide your features, try to love it. other people see you differently than you see yourself. but they can see your confidence (all this was said by a person who still has complexes because of his thinness, but I no longer hide it) #cosplay #smalltits #gamergirl #egirl #teen #schoolgirl #skirt #fishnet

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Had pizza yesterday, didn't overeat, all good :3

but I suddenly disliked all the cosplay pictures and struggled with accepting myself. 
It's a common thing for me, one day I look at myself in the mirror or in pictures and I'm happy with how I look, the next day I'm sad and uncomfortable looking at myself and I see myself as horrible.

In fact, I don't know of any people I've been close to who are completely happy with their looks. Even the most gorgeous and beautiful girls I thought were perfect. 
When I would chat with other models and we would share our photos with each other and we would end up each admiring what the other model had created and being unhappy with what we had done ourselves. 

What am I trying to do about it?
1. Letting ourselves know that we can be overly critical of ourselves and ignore the good things, but also pay attention to the things we don't like for some reason. 
2. We can try to realize that we value people for more than just their looks. Yes, we are attracted to beautiful people, but we stay with those whose "soul" is close to us. And even if a person with obvious health problems and serious defects because of this, we can sincerely admire what he or she is a person and even defects become just features of the person dear to us.
#cosplay #cosplayer #skinny #tiny #teen #costume #petite

Had pizza yesterday, didn't overeat, all good :3 but I suddenly disliked all the cosplay pictures and struggled with accepting myself. It's a common thing for me, one day I look at myself in the mirror or in pictures and I'm happy with how I look, the next day I'm sad and uncomfortable looking at myself and I see myself as horrible. In fact, I don't know of any people I've been close to who are completely happy with their looks. Even the most gorgeous and beautiful girls I thought were perfect. When I would chat with other models and we would share our photos with each other and we would end up each admiring what the other model had created and being unhappy with what we had done ourselves. What am I trying to do about it? 1. Letting ourselves know that we can be overly critical of ourselves and ignore the good things, but also pay attention to the things we don't like for some reason. 2. We can try to realize that we value people for more than just their looks. Yes, we are attracted to beautiful people, but we stay with those whose "soul" is close to us. And even if a person with obvious health problems and serious defects because of this, we can sincerely admire what he or she is a person and even defects become just features of the person dear to us. #cosplay #cosplayer #skinny #tiny #teen #costume #petite