Trying new things in the bedroom doesn’t always have to be something wild! I feel like when we hear “spice things up in the bedroom” it often brings up thoughts of riding crops handcuffs, and whipped cream covered bodies. There is a connotation that it has to be kinky or you have to exploring a fetish to be “spicing things up.”
I have two things to note about this!! There is a kink and fetish for EVERYTHING…you name it it’s out there. It’s not always wild, but it’s usually something you don’t hear very often. Kinks and fetishes can include massage, soft touch, a person wearing a certain color, a type of shoe…you get the idea! It’s anything you want.
When you want to spice things up you can think of your kinks and fetishes, but remember that they don’t have to crazy. It just has to be something that turns you on. It can be as simple as that one pair of jeans that you love your partner wearing.
If you’re following us you know that massage is a big part of our life, but many people never practice that with their partner. Sooooo trying massage, sensual touch, or a different position might be a way for you to spice things up in the bedroom that is simple and really connects you with your partner.
xxKate
