Hey everyone!
I just wanted to share a personal milestone and the unexpected journey it's taken me on. Two months ago, my husband and I decided to embark on a bit of an experiment – he's been "pussy free" for this duration, and it's been quite the revelation.
Firstly, let me clarify: this isn't about deprivation or punishment. It's about power dynamics, control, and the unexpected benefits it's brought to our relationship.
From the outset, my husband was on board with the idea. Sure, there were moments of hesitation and curiosity about how it would play out, but we were both willing to explore. And oh boy, has it been a journey.
I've found myself feeling more in control, not in a domineering or manipulative way, but in a way that's allowed me to tap into my own desires and assert myself more confidently within our relationship dynamic. It's like discovering a new facet of myself that I didn't fully realize was there.
But it's not just about control – it's about intimacy too. There's something incredibly intimate about the act of denying someone, of being the gatekeeper to their desires, humiliating them. And surprisingly, it's brought us closer. The tension, the anticipation, the negotiation – it's all added layers of depth to our connection.
Of course, it hasn't been without its challenges. There are moments when he begs, when the desire is palpable and almost overwhelming. But therein lies the beauty – the power to grant or withhold, to tease and tantalize, to navigate those desires together.
What's perhaps most surprising is how conflicts have diminished during this time. Without the distraction of physical intimacy, we've been forced to communicate more openly, to address issues head-on rather than using sex as a band-aid.
So here we are, two months in, and I'm feeling more empowered, more connected, and more in love than ever. It's been an unexpected journey, but one I'm grateful for.
