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(part 2) The only way you can really serve me is financially, but I will announce if I'm ever in need of other services. (And, to clarify, I'm almost always into whatever dommy content you're paying for. Ex: Just because I don't think small dicks are inferior in a casual daily setting doesn't mean I won't genuinely enjoy humiliating them for willing recipients. More details on this in the post linked above). What I'd expect our interactions to look like once I do consider you a sub of mine: I highly prioritize authenticity. If you compliment me, tip me, refer to me a certain way, show interest in a certain kink, etc, I want it to be because you genuinely want to and not because you feel it's your obligation/role as my sub. I'm not impressed or excited by words if you don't follow it up with actions or show it more than a few times. If you genuinely lose interest in me as a domme then just tell me or stop interacting; since my preferences are more casual I promise I won't be offended or take it personally ^^ I won't be interested in anything long-term like contracts unless I've known and interacted with you for a long time anyways. My trust, interest, and priority can only be gained this way. Also between paid content I'm generally in a more casual headspace, so you shouldn't necessarily expect me to be messaging you super dominantly. This will depend heavily on things like the content of your messages, how long we've known each other, how familiar I am with your preferences, and my mood at the time. Think of it like having a friend with benefits; you're not always gonna be sexting or having sex. Most likely, you'll just be casual with most interactions and maybe get spicy when the moment calls for it. It's fine if you want to message me in a submissive way most of the time, but just don't expect me to match your energy or feed into the kinkiness every time. If you have any questions, feel free to comment them here or message me!

Published: December 12th 2023, 11:01:41 pm

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(part 2) The only way you can really serve me is financially, but I will announce if I'm ever in need of other services. (And, to clarify, I'm almost always into whatever dommy content you're paying for. Ex: Just because I don't think small dicks are inferior in a casual daily setting doesn't mean I won't genuinely enjoy humiliating them for willing recipients. More details on this in the post linked above). What I'd expect our interactions to look like once I do consider you a sub of mine: I highly prioritize authenticity. If you compliment me, tip me, refer to me a certain way, show interest in a certain kink, etc, I want it to be because you genuinely want to and not because you feel it's your obligation/role as my sub. I'm not impressed or excited by words if you don't follow it up with actions or show it more than a few times. If you genuinely lose interest in me as a domme then just tell me or stop interacting; since my preferences are more casual I promise I won't be offended or take it personally ^^ I won't be interested in anything long-term like contracts unless I've known and interacted with you for a long time anyways. My trust, interest, and priority can only be gained this way. Also between paid content I'm generally in a more casual headspace, so you shouldn't necessarily expect me to be messaging you super dominantly. This will depend heavily on things like the content of your messages, how long we've known each other, how familiar I am with your preferences, and my mood at the time. Think of it like having a friend with benefits; you're not always gonna be sexting or having sex. Most likely, you'll just be casual with most interactions and maybe get spicy when the moment calls for it. It's fine if you want to message me in a submissive way most of the time, but just don't expect me to match your energy or feed into the kinkiness every time. If you have any questions, feel free to comment them here or message me!

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First of all, I differ from most dommes in that it's not a lifestyle for me. I don't have consistent desires and views that I want subs to fulfill for me. Instead, my domming style is more situational. You can hear a more in-depth talk on the intricacies of this for me here: https://fansly.com/post/548449457541230592

Because of that, the ideal domme/sub relationship for me would mostly revolve around consistent paid content/general payments. This isn't necessarily because I want our relationship to be findom-focused, but rather because I won't have spontaneous desires to make use of you. However, if I'm paid for a certain interaction or certain amount of time with clear expectations laid out on your end, it will be easy for me to naturally get into the dominant headspace that's relevant to our interactions.

That being said, I also will need clear expectations on your end. Regardless of how degrading or cruel you want me to treat you, I do respect you, your limits, and your desires as a person. The only way I can feel comfortable going all-in is knowing how far I can go, what *actually* excites you, and what feels genuine for both of us. So if you start out by purchasing some custom content and realize I'm not really hitting the mark for your expectations, instead of forcing it to work out, it may be a sign that we aren't best suited for a D/s relationship.

This also means that you can't really "apply" to be my sub without us first having some paid interactions with each other. If you can't really afford regular/longer content then that's perfectly fine with me, but once again you most likely can't really be *my* sub; rather, a submissive supporter (which is just as appreciated!). And there aren't really any services you can do for me that would warrant that position either; I'm not looking for video editors, promoters, homework slaves, task slaves, etc.

Interested in being my sub? First, let me outline my preferences and expectations for you. First of all, I differ from most dommes in that it's not a lifestyle for me. I don't have consistent desires and views that I want subs to fulfill for me. Instead, my domming style is more situational. You can hear a more in-depth talk on the intricacies of this for me here: https://fansly.com/post/548449457541230592 Because of that, the ideal domme/sub relationship for me would mostly revolve around consistent paid content/general payments. This isn't necessarily because I want our relationship to be findom-focused, but rather because I won't have spontaneous desires to make use of you. However, if I'm paid for a certain interaction or certain amount of time with clear expectations laid out on your end, it will be easy for me to naturally get into the dominant headspace that's relevant to our interactions. That being said, I also will need clear expectations on your end. Regardless of how degrading or cruel you want me to treat you, I do respect you, your limits, and your desires as a person. The only way I can feel comfortable going all-in is knowing how far I can go, what *actually* excites you, and what feels genuine for both of us. So if you start out by purchasing some custom content and realize I'm not really hitting the mark for your expectations, instead of forcing it to work out, it may be a sign that we aren't best suited for a D/s relationship. This also means that you can't really "apply" to be my sub without us first having some paid interactions with each other. If you can't really afford regular/longer content then that's perfectly fine with me, but once again you most likely can't really be *my* sub; rather, a submissive supporter (which is just as appreciated!). And there aren't really any services you can do for me that would warrant that position either; I'm not looking for video editors, promoters, homework slaves, task slaves, etc.

MESSAGE FOR SUBMISSIVE CRITTERS:

Considering the gorgeous goddess that I am, I’m working way too hard and not reaping the benefits as much as I used to. I work 12 hours a day, 7 days a week, and although I’m getting by comfortably, it’s not enough for the effort I put in. 

I’m looking to adopt a few bill paying minions to spoil me the way I deserve to be spoiled and take some of the pressure off my shoulders. 

I’m willing to come to a quid-pro-quo arrangement that’s tailored to your perverted needs. Depending on the amount you’re willing to send: tasks, videos, photos, ratings, and texting sessions will be available. I never do live sessions anymore so this is a rare opportunity to get 1-1 attention from me. Video sessions and live streams may be available for big spenders, but as always video calls are an absolute no no. 

I already have a live-in submissive who cleans my house, cooks for me, massages me and takes really good care of me so you have big boots to fill if you want to get my attention. I am looking for well behaved, polite submissive to serve me. Bratty and demanding behaviour will not be tolerated- you must be mental health friendly and understand that I may need days off to take care of myself. My well being comes before you. 

If you are interested and want to open a dialogue, you must send a tip first so I know you’re not wasting my time, then we will talk 🫶🏻 This will be a 1 month trial period with the opportunity to be long term, if I like you.

MESSAGE FOR SUBMISSIVE CRITTERS: Considering the gorgeous goddess that I am, I’m working way too hard and not reaping the benefits as much as I used to. I work 12 hours a day, 7 days a week, and although I’m getting by comfortably, it’s not enough for the effort I put in. I’m looking to adopt a few bill paying minions to spoil me the way I deserve to be spoiled and take some of the pressure off my shoulders. I’m willing to come to a quid-pro-quo arrangement that’s tailored to your perverted needs. Depending on the amount you’re willing to send: tasks, videos, photos, ratings, and texting sessions will be available. I never do live sessions anymore so this is a rare opportunity to get 1-1 attention from me. Video sessions and live streams may be available for big spenders, but as always video calls are an absolute no no. I already have a live-in submissive who cleans my house, cooks for me, massages me and takes really good care of me so you have big boots to fill if you want to get my attention. I am looking for well behaved, polite submissive to serve me. Bratty and demanding behaviour will not be tolerated- you must be mental health friendly and understand that I may need days off to take care of myself. My well being comes before you. If you are interested and want to open a dialogue, you must send a tip first so I know you’re not wasting my time, then we will talk 🫶🏻 This will be a 1 month trial period with the opportunity to be long term, if I like you.