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What do women really want from men? 🤔 Surely every man has wondered this question at least once in his life. And probably still wonders it to this day! If you think the answer is just gifts and compliments, you should read to the end. Because it's much more complicated... but also more interesting Here's the paradox: in real life, women crave one thing, but on platforms like Fansly, they crave something completely different. Or... is it the same thing after all? Let's find out! 1. Trust and security In a relationship, this is the baseline. Women want to feel like they can trust you. This doesn't mean they dream of a knight in armor, although that's not out of the question. Trust is the assurance that you won't walk away at an important moment, that you'll be supportive when things are difficult, and that you'll be honest, even if the truth isn't always convenient. On fansly, for example, it's the same: women open up when they feel safe. Virtual flirting is only possible when there is a feeling that you are not just an object, but a real live person who is treated with respect. It works the same way in real life. We all want to know that we can trust and be understood 2. Emotional connection. Want to know a secret? Women want a man who isn't afraid to show his vulnerability. This doesn't mean at all that you have to spill your fears and worries from the doorstep. But being supportive and open is what creates a deep emotional connection. Only then can women truly relax around you. On fansly, emotions play a huge role too, even if it's not immediately obvious. Some men think it's all about appearances, but women always notice those who pay attention to details, who ask “How are you?”, who show interest in the person and not just the body. It's exactly the same in real life. 👇🏻continued in the comments...

Published: October 15th 2024, 2:43:42 pm

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What do women really want from men? 🤔 Surely every man has wondered this question at least once in his life. And probably still wonders it to this day! If you think the answer is just gifts and compliments, you should read to the end. Because it's much more complicated... but also more interesting Here's the paradox: in real life, women crave one thing, but on platforms like Fansly, they crave something completely different. Or... is it the same thing after all? Let's find out! 1. Trust and security In a relationship, this is the baseline. Women want to feel like they can trust you. This doesn't mean they dream of a knight in armor, although that's not out of the question. Trust is the assurance that you won't walk away at an important moment, that you'll be supportive when things are difficult, and that you'll be honest, even if the truth isn't always convenient. On fansly, for example, it's the same: women open up when they feel safe. Virtual flirting is only possible when there is a feeling that you are not just an object, but a real live person who is treated with respect. It works the same way in real life. We all want to know that we can trust and be understood 2. Emotional connection. Want to know a secret? Women want a man who isn't afraid to show his vulnerability. This doesn't mean at all that you have to spill your fears and worries from the doorstep. But being supportive and open is what creates a deep emotional connection. Only then can women truly relax around you. On fansly, emotions play a huge role too, even if it's not immediately obvious. Some men think it's all about appearances, but women always notice those who pay attention to details, who ask “How are you?”, who show interest in the person and not just the body. It's exactly the same in real life. 👇🏻continued in the comments...

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Let’s be real: many men grew up with the belief that vulnerability equals weakness. Showing emotions? Nope, not for them. You’re supposed to keep a strong face, be the "tough guy." But here’s the interesting part — women, on the other hand, are waiting for that very vulnerability. Why? And why is it so important to learn how to be open?

What is vulnerability, really?
Vulnerability doesn’t mean being weak or out of control. It’s the ability to be honest with yourself and others, even when it feels uncomfortable. It’s not just about admitting fears or pain but allowing someone else to see your true emotions.

Women crave this because it’s how real connections are formed. We need to feel that you can be yourself around us, without masks or protective barriers. When a man allows himself to be vulnerable, he doesn’t become weak — he becomes authentic.
This holds true in real life as well: women don’t just want a man who can give a compliment, they want someone who understands that relationships are about exchanging emotions, honesty, and trust.

Why are men afraid of it?
Men often believe that if they show their emotions, they’ll be judged or, worse, rejected. This fear is especially strong in romantic relationships, where there’s pressure to "be the man" — strong, reliable, and, of course, flawless. But here’s the paradox: it’s that very perceived invincibility that often pushes women away because it creates a sense of distance.

How can you use vulnerability to build stronger relationships?
If you want to create truly close relationships, don’t be afraid to show your real feelings. Vulnerability is strength, not weakness. It’s what makes you more human and accessible to your partner. And remember: women aren’t looking for perfection, they’re looking for a real man who can be himself.

What do you think about this? Have there been moments where openness and vulnerability helped you build stronger relationships?

"Why do men fear vulnerability, while women crave it?" Let’s be real: many men grew up with the belief that vulnerability equals weakness. Showing emotions? Nope, not for them. You’re supposed to keep a strong face, be the "tough guy." But here’s the interesting part — women, on the other hand, are waiting for that very vulnerability. Why? And why is it so important to learn how to be open? What is vulnerability, really? Vulnerability doesn’t mean being weak or out of control. It’s the ability to be honest with yourself and others, even when it feels uncomfortable. It’s not just about admitting fears or pain but allowing someone else to see your true emotions. Women crave this because it’s how real connections are formed. We need to feel that you can be yourself around us, without masks or protective barriers. When a man allows himself to be vulnerable, he doesn’t become weak — he becomes authentic. This holds true in real life as well: women don’t just want a man who can give a compliment, they want someone who understands that relationships are about exchanging emotions, honesty, and trust. Why are men afraid of it? Men often believe that if they show their emotions, they’ll be judged or, worse, rejected. This fear is especially strong in romantic relationships, where there’s pressure to "be the man" — strong, reliable, and, of course, flawless. But here’s the paradox: it’s that very perceived invincibility that often pushes women away because it creates a sense of distance. How can you use vulnerability to build stronger relationships? If you want to create truly close relationships, don’t be afraid to show your real feelings. Vulnerability is strength, not weakness. It’s what makes you more human and accessible to your partner. And remember: women aren’t looking for perfection, they’re looking for a real man who can be himself. What do you think about this? Have there been moments where openness and vulnerability helped you build stronger relationships?