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Hey everyone! 💋 If you’re new here, I’ve been into psychology for about a year now, digging into books and case studies. Some of you asked how psychology connects with dating, so here’s my take. After a long-term relationship, I got back into dating and noticed a few common mistakes guys make on first dates — and how to avoid them. First up, skip the over-the-top romantic stuff right away. Fancy dinners with candles can be sweet but might feel too intense at the start. A low-key coffee or walk lets us both relax and chat naturally. Also, avoid turning the date into an interview. I get wanting to know more, but rapid-fire questions can feel intense. Go with the flow, share stories, and let the conversation happen. And about physical contact — don’t rush it. Chemistry is great, but pushing too soon can be awkward. Respect my space and let things develop naturally. Just be yourself and don’t overthink it. Confidence is cool, but keep it chill. Relax, smile, and let’s enjoy the date. If we’re comfortable, that’s a win. Hope my tips help you find your special someone! Love and kisses, Didi 💋❤️ #blog #life #lifestyle #public #vlog #foryou #daily #diary #natural #cute #aesthetic #skinny #slim

Published: August 1st 2024, 4:47:37 pm

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Hey everyone! 💋 If you’re new here, I’ve been into psychology for about a year now, digging into books and case studies. Some of you asked how psychology connects with dating, so here’s my take. After a long-term relationship, I got back into dating and noticed a few common mistakes guys make on first dates — and how to avoid them. First up, skip the over-the-top romantic stuff right away. Fancy dinners with candles can be sweet but might feel too intense at the start. A low-key coffee or walk lets us both relax and chat naturally. Also, avoid turning the date into an interview. I get wanting to know more, but rapid-fire questions can feel intense. Go with the flow, share stories, and let the conversation happen. And about physical contact — don’t rush it. Chemistry is great, but pushing too soon can be awkward. Respect my space and let things develop naturally. Just be yourself and don’t overthink it. Confidence is cool, but keep it chill. Relax, smile, and let’s enjoy the date. If we’re comfortable, that’s a win. Hope my tips help you find your special someone! Love and kisses, Didi 💋❤️ #blog #life #lifestyle #public #vlog #foryou #daily #diary #natural #cute #aesthetic #skinny #slim

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